The LaMarr List: August 29, 2017

Um, can you tell it’s hard for me to find time to write? My last List was over a month ago, and on vacation to boot. At the time I had grand aspirations of doing these once a week, because I consume A LOT of content and there’s no reason it shouldn’t be easy to share the best of it with all of you, and yet here we are. Maybe once a month is a more realistic goal?

  • I enjoyed this piece about being a better male ally. A particular line really hit home:

    “A boss has season tickets to see a baseball team. He generally invites men from work to join him — not because of discrimination, but because he’s worried about how the invitation would be perceived if he extended it to a woman.”

    How many times have you seen that happen? And it’s pretty understandable! As a woman, I can attest that this happens from our side, too: Countless times, I’ve held back from connecting with male colleagues outside of work because I’m worried about the perception. What steps can we all take to fix this?

  • Utah’s very own Tyler McGinnis has some great podcast episodes, and you should give them a listen! The two up now feature Kent C. Dodds (also Utah’s own), who is active in the OS community, and Dan Abramov, who helped create Redux. I love how the topics include burnout and work/life balance.
  • Last week I had the opportunity to attend React Rally, and it was fantastic. When I told Brian Holt it was my first tech conf, he insisted that it would be all downhill from now on. So many great speakers, so many ‘online idols’ I was able to learn from and meet! I’ll have to write a detailed post about it later, but in the meantime, keep an eye on their website for next year’s tix, because they sell out QUICKLY.

This weekend we enjoyed Snowbird’s Oktoberfest with some of our favorite people, and when my mother-in-law asked us to send her the picture with the mountain, well….we couldn’t resist sending her this:

An image of Ashly LaMarr at Snowbird Ski ResortAt Snowbird’s Oktoberfest

No time to write

Fascinating blog post title, right? Well, it’s 5:30am on the kids’ first day of school and it’s all I can come up with. And it’s the truth.

I’m seven months into my first developer job and I haven’t had time to write about any of it, which is very disheartening. Every day is an adventure of learning and I want to document it all, but when the workday is over, there’s just enough time to hit the gym, bury my eyes in icepacks, hang out with my family, and hit the sack. Which means mornings and weekends are generally reserved for the extra studying I’m doing on my own. Which means writing falls by the wayside. And I hate it. But priorities are priorities.

So yes, I’m still here and yes, I’m still loving being a developer. My team is amazing and makes every day a blast. I am realizing the appeal of a job where I’d get to use all the latest and greatest tools/frameworks/libs – then I wouldn’t have to spend tons of my time outside of work learning them. But I cannot believe the rate at which I’m learning JavaScript, SQL, and C# – sometimes I feel like that Matrix download thing is happening. It’s the learning that makes everything worth it!